Well, I'm a 30+, female, local and this is what the locals do: Wednesday night is Marina Cafe ladies night. Everyone usually stops by after work until about 9p.m. then it's over to Sky Bar. AJ's is also a great spot. It's very casual and on the Harbor. AJ's is fun just about any night. Hog's Breath is another cool hang out. They have good bands and it's also very casual. Of course, Harbor Docks is a good choice for a beer at the bar and some good seafood and sushi. One more...Fudpuckers, they have a great band and it's a neat place. I hope this helps.