I believe La Vela has foam parties every Thursday night, although I could be wrong. Of course PCB's gonna be a sausage fest, but nowhere else will be any different. Girls tend to come here to relax, have fun with friends, and improve their self-image (ultimately improving self-esteem), while most guys come to get drunk and get laid. It's like dance clubs, girls tend to get in their lesbian-like circles on the dance floor and dance around their pocketbooks and shoes, while most guys drink, stare, and drool the whole time. Women are not geniologically(is that a word?) dominant, so they don't have to worry about initiating conversation and whatnot. Plus most girls have dated plenty of hot guys that have been a-holes, so one hot guy isn't much different from another. Luckily for the elite, most guys in general don't understand attraction and how to trigger it and have no idea how to relax and just talk to women, so there truly isn't much competition. These guys need to realize that all girls want is to have fun and laugh with a confident and supportive guy; not get some cheesy pick-up line from some insecure loser. Women can READ men in about 30 seconds from meeting them (by voice tone, posture, eye contact and other unconscious factors) and immediately categorize them into "date-able" or "not". Also take into account that women are more attracted to personality than looks! Attraction doesn't follow the rules of logic - remember that! That's just my 2¢ tho. Sorry it got long.