A couple of locals recommended Emerald Grande hotel... they'll have fireworks... plus it's just a short stroll to many bars.. including Nightown across the street.
The place you see so many boats (at the bridge) is Crab Island... actually an underwater island. Check out this cool pic looking down from Emerald Grande:
The view from Emerald Grande looking onto Crab Island
And check out this page for nearby boat ramps and launches:
DESTIN BOAT RAMPS - GUIDE TO LAUNCHING YOUR BOAT IN THE DESTIN AREA
Good luck and have fun!
Take lots of pics and post 'em here when you get back....