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Originally Posted by chickmagnet869
I believe La Vela has foam parties every Thursday night, although I could be wrong. Of course PCB's gonna be a sausage fest, but nowhere else will be any different. Girls tend to come here to relax, have fun with friends, and improve their self-image (ultimately improving self-esteem), while most guys come to get drunk and get laid. It's like dance clubs, girls tend to get in their lesbian-like circles on the dance floor and dance around their pocketbooks and shoes, while most guys drink, stare, and drool the whole time. Women are not geniologically(is that a word?) dominant, so they don't have to worry about initiating conversation and whatnot. Plus most girls have dated plenty of hot guys that have been a-holes, so one hot guy isn't much different from another. Luckily for the elite, most guys in general don't understand attraction and how to trigger it and have no idea how to relax and just talk to women, so there truly isn't much competition. These guys need to realize that all girls want is to have fun and laugh with a confident and supportive guy; not get some cheesy pick-up line from some insecure loser. Women can READ men in about 30 seconds from meeting them (by voice tone, posture, eye contact and other unconscious factors) and immediately categorize them into "date-able" or "not". Also take into account that women are more attracted to personality than looks! Attraction doesn't follow the rules of logic - remember that! That's just my 2¢ tho. Sorry it got long.
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well, i left pcb with a much better self esteem now. but as for the whole thing bout girls and you being just "another hot guy"- thats the thing...you gotta have something "unique" thatll make u stand out- some guys had crazy dance moves and would break it down and crap and other guys would stand around and thing, "what a fag". but then a few seconds later when he has 5 girls dancing around him and grinding all over him, hes the one laughing.
then also what you wear too- if you go in wearing abercrombie/american eagle/hollister as a textbook hot college frat guy, chances are you'll blend right in 100% with the other guys and ull be looked right past...very surprised tho- i didnt see many popped collars thankfully
the fact is- despite the guy:girl ratio being pretty bad, the amount of hot do-able girls (even if it takes a click of the switch or some assistance from ur friend Mr. Anheiser to make her do-able), is almost 100%. in other words- even tho its only bout 40% girls there, 99% of them are worth it.
when u hear sausage fest at college or ordinary nights of partying, thats a bad thing cuz its mixed with every girl more or less- hot, fat, ugly, decent, etc. so in those sausage fests, (lets assume also a 60:40, guy:girl), probly out of them only bout half those girls would be doable in any sense
so i mean, if it was a taco fest (opposite of sausage fest for those who dont know), chances are ur not gunna really have a 99% hotness rate. so itll again, put it to like a 60-40 (guys - doable girls)
PCB just did the dirty work for us and weeded out the bad ones for us pretty much :)